Ladies, if you’ve been out of the workforce for years, it’s totally normal to feel a little rusty. You’ve held down the fort, built a home, raised kids, and managed life’s many curveballs. Now you’re ready to reclaim your economic independence and dive back into the job market – but let’s be real, that jump back can come with a mixed bag of excitement and self-doubt.
You may feel like the “career” world has moved on without you or worry if your skills are still relevant. Newsflash: they are! Many of the abilities you’ve mastered as a homemaker are absolute gold in the workplace. But if confidence is holding you back, it’s time to work on that self-esteem. Here are three steps to help you build up your self-worth so you can strut into any interview or networking event with your head held high.
1. Identify and Own Your Transferable Skills
Your time as a homemaker wasn’t “time off” from developing skills; it was just a different type of education. Managing finances, scheduling, multitasking, problem-solving, and teaching – these are all marketable skills that employers value. Even though others in your life did not value those skills, the job market does!
Action Step: Sit down and list out all the skills you’ve used over the years to keep things running smoothly. Start by downloading my Ex-Trad Wife Economic Guide and use the Identify Your Skills Sections to start the process. Also, reflect on any volunteer work, community involvement, or even hobbies where you’ve demonstrated leadership or organization. Then, research the “workplace” equivalents of these skills and how they can be positioned on a resume. If you’re unsure, that’s where career strategy consultations can come in handy – get professional help in translating these abilities into resume-worthy, job-grabbing skills!
2. Embrace Self-Learning and Update Your Skills
You’re no stranger to learning, especially if you’ve been in charge of educating others at home. Now, it’s time to turn that power inward. Technology and industry trends may have evolved since you last worked outside the home, but with the vast resources available online, you can easily brush up on anything you need. Many skills can be learned or refreshed with short, free online courses or low-cost certifications that make you a more attractive candidate to employers.
Action Step: Identify the key skills or tools you need in your chosen field. Check out resources like LinkedIn Learning, Coursera, Udemy or even YouTube for accessible courses. Dedicate an hour or two each week to building your knowledge. This will not only add to your professional toolkit but also give you the confidence that you’re ready to tackle today’s workplace challenges.
3. Build Your Professional Network with Confidence
After spending years focused on your family, it can be intimidating to network and build professional relationships. But here’s a secret: most people love to help others who are genuine, enthusiastic, and willing to learn. Approach networking as a way to learn and get guidance, rather than to “ask for a job.”
Action Step: Start with your existing connections – friends, family, former colleagues – and let them know about your plans to re-enter the workforce. Attend local professional meetups or look for online networking groups relevant to your field. Share your story confidently; your journey and experience are assets, not setbacks. Every conversation you have strengthens your self-worth and builds valuable connections that may open doors to your next opportunity.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Rebuilding your career isn’t just about landing the right job – it’s about reclaiming your power and financial independence. If you’re ready for a structured plan to transition back into the workforce, download our free “Ex-Trad Wife Economic Guide” for practical steps on building your personal economy. This guide is designed specifically to help ex-trad wives like you transition smoothly back into a fulfilling career path.
And if you’re serious about making that leap, schedule a career strategy consultation with MentorShelly Consulting! We’ll help you craft a tailored plan that highlights your unique strengths, builds your self-confidence, and positions you as a standout candidate in today’s job market.
Your journey back to work is one of empowerment, growth, and transformation. Let’s get started on making it your reality!
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